How To Manifest Your Crush To Be Obsessed With You

How To Manifest Your Crush To Be Obsessed With You

How many nights have you wished your crush would become obsessed with you? Hoping one day they will develop feelings for you and you only.

If you’re wondering when your life will become a romantic fairy tale and how you can manifest your crush's obsession with you, look no further. 

It is easy to manifest a specific person with these five simple and proven steps. 

The Law of Attraction is fundamental to make whatever you are dreaming of come true. Once you truly understand the three laws; attracting, creating and allowing, you can achieve anything. 

I will show you how to change and empower your thoughts to manifest your crush to be obsessed with you. 

Below I will cover the five steps that will help you attract your romantic match you desire and how you can manifest it into reality. 

Step 1: Refine Your Desire

The first step of how to make your crush infatuated with you is to refine your desire.


In order to manifest something, you must first clarify exactly what and who you want to attract. Make sure to be very specific and not leave out any details when setting your intentions. This will ensure the universe delivers exactly what you are hoping for.

The first method I suggest is to write a clear and refined intention statement. The best way to do this is write between one to three concise sentences outlining what you want to manifest (not forgetting any of the key details). For example if you want to manifest your ex back, a good intention statement could look like this: 

“I am full of love and hope for my future with my ex. My ex thinks I am their perfect match and getting back together will be easy.” 

Once you have completed step one by creating a refined intention statement, move on to step two. 

Step 2: Release Your Limiting Beliefs

Before you start manifesting it is integral that you believe with all of your being that it is possible. It is crucial to release any and all doubts and limiting beliefs that you may have.


A limiting belief is a thought or state of mind that you think is the absolute truth and stops you from doing certain things. These limiting beliefs can push you out of alignment and stop your manifestations coming true.


Some examples of limiting beliefs are: “I’m not good enough to deserve their love and attention” or “I don’t know if they will ever feel the same about me”.

A proven method that truly works for releasing your limited beliefs is to use affirmations. Positive affirmations will help you change your limiting beliefs and your subconscious will be reprogrammed with positivity.

The best way to do this is to choose a positive affirmation and read it out loud to yourself. This is best achieved in front of a mirror. An example of this is “I am good enough and I deserve love”. Repeat this five times and you should feel the positive energy increasing your vibration. Doing this consistently in the morning and evening every day will help you release your limiting beliefs.

I highly recommend also using our Manifestation Digital Planner. This tool will help you be accountable for your affirmations and eliminate any limiting beliefs.

You can find our Digital Manifestation Planner here.

Step 3: Envision Your Dreams

Once you have completed step two and eliminate any of your limiting beliefs the third step is to envision your dreams and desires. Being able to visualise your crush becoming obsessed with you is an incredibly powerful way of channelling your feelings to manifest this.


When you are envisioning it’s crucial you are in a space where you feel relaxed, calm and good energy flowing. Ways to make the space feel like this include; burning a candle or essential oils in a diffuser, placing your crystals, dimming the lights or playing calm music. 


It’s important to feel grounded and comfortable. I suggest sitting on the floor with your legs crossed, closing your eyes and slowly breathing in and breathing out deeply five times. 


Remembering and utilising what you wrote for your intentions in step one. Envision this dream in significant detail. It’s important to focus your energy more on the way you are feeling than the physical details. 


Think of how you will feel when your crush is obsessed with you? How will your mood change? This is just a couple examples of feelings to focus on when you are envisioning.

Focus on this envisioning and attracting higher vibrational energy for five to ten minutes. This step works best if you can maintain this positive energy throughout the day. Then the universe will align you with your desires.

Step 4: Choose Your Manifestation Method

After completing the above steps you are well on your way to manifesting your crush’s obsession with you. To further help I recommend trying the secret methods within my guide Love Rekindled.

To manifest your crushes obsession with you a great method that is incredibly powerful is the 3-6-9 method.

This method involves writing down your desired manifestation three times in the morning, six times during the day, and nine times in the evening. This repetition throughout the day is believed to reinforce your intention and signal the universe to bring your desire into reality.

I highly recommend that you use our 3-6-9 Manifestation Sheets for this method.

You can reuse your intention that you set in step one by writing it down three times in the morning, six times during the day and nine times in the evening. 

It’s important to try and channel the emotions that you would feel if your crush was already infatuated with you. This is the key to manifesting. 

Repetition is also key. I recommend repeating this method every single day for at least the next thirty-six days. Then you can move on to the final step.

Step 5: Believe And Trust In The Universe

Have you heard of the saying that good things take time? Well if you have listened and repeated the tasks above for over thirty-six days and your crush is still not infatuated with you yet…take a deep breath and believe that it will happen at the right time. 

Whatever is meant to be will be. It is integral to trust in the universe that you will be provided with everything you dream of at the best possible time (often when you least expect it).

Believe and trust in the process and the timing of the universe. You don’t want to become obsessed and clingy and exert desperate energy on your crush. This desperate energy could potentially push you out of alignment with your greatest desire.

Continue with the positive affirmations and manifestation techniques above and detach yourself from the desired outcome. 

It’s important to remain grateful for all that you have instead of focusing on what you don’t have.

Just by following these five simple steps, your crush will become obsessed with you before you know it. Remember to stay patient and trust the universe. 

If you need further help making someone obsessed with you, go beyond manifestation by awakening your dark persona. You can learn more about awakening your Dark Persona here.

Happy Manifesting!

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